Help - Husband in MLC

[Dia]

I'll try to ride it out Dia, but I can't help but think that the GALing is what got me where I am now, this is what caused him to think I was having an A.

Well, you'll have to make a decision here. How much autonomy are you willing to give up for his insecurities, and for how long?

Examples:

a) I'm not willing to give up any! I'm not doing anything wrong. I'll do what I can to reassure him, but I have a right to a life, too.

b) Ok, I'll give this up TEMPORARILY, just until this crisis passes. Then we need to have some talks about 'new rules'.

c) I'll give it ALL up forever. His insecurities are far more important than my happiness, etc.