Thanks for dropping in. Your thoughts don't make me more unhappy. My H has been going to leave, not leaving for some months now, he would go and come back, unable to live without me. I started the GALing. Out of the blue this week he suddenly decides because I am too slow answering an email that I am having an A and being guided by someone, he comes home in the day and packs up and moves out, yesterday I was accused of hiding my pay - untrue - so he opens his own accounts, withdraws a large sum from our joint account and says that's it.
He even admitted that he had never looked at our account until yesterday and because my pay goes in as cash to him my pay was not going in.
That's it in a nutshell as to what brings me to this current point in my life.
I don't know if he has an OW I asked yesterday but he did not answer me on that point so no denial and no confirmation. There has been suspicions.
