Forgive the intrusion, I really don't know what is going on. But I always suspect that the person making accusations is doing so because he is trying to hide that he is doing those same things. So, if someone were to accuse me of stealing, I would suspect him of stealing. I don't know why this is, but I believe that people project their own thoughts onto others. I hope that this thought doesn't make you even more unhappy than you are right now.