The entire exercise of attracting one person by giving attention to another person breeds mistrust on both sides. You more or less proved that with your "you have me thinking" follow up. When folks go the Gucci route (sorry Gucci) trust gets trampled.
you bring up some excellent points (and something i dont understand about people while reading many of the posts on this site) but for me trust would go right out the freaking window as soon as they starting freaking around. i would think what the hell is wrong with a little game playing when they are playing hide the sausage with someone else. but thats just me. non-cuckold steve.
Now...if LBS is NOTGAL, and NOT doing The Work, and NOT looking Fine... they have other things to worry about then how to make their spouse jealous.
and "you have me thinking" i do have an interesting follow-up to post, just not right now
