yep, and I'm not at all bashing you for how you're feeling. It's completely understandable.

Feel it, acknowledge it and let it go. Try not to let it drive you deeper.

Besides, I'm pretty darn sure he will come 'round. And the advice he may be getting might be coming from his prothers. Is that likely?

The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137