First, keep to one thread. It makes it a lot easier for people to follow you, and your story.
Second, you have to stop blaming her family. And her for that matter. It's not going to help, that's for sure. Right now she thinks her family is all she has, so any attacks on them are attacks on her.
Third. you need to calm down. Find out from your lawyer what can be done to delay things. And make it the lawyer's fault! Time can be on your side, but it is going to take a lot of time. I sense that you are in a perpetual panic. That's not going to do the job at all.
Read DR. Take care of being a better bobby. That's all you can do right now. If she is seeing the bobby I see here, I'm sorry to say, she's not coming back. You have the power to change you, so get to it!
