Where is manipulation when the man finally gives up and wants to walk away himself? Found there is a life outside this hell of being crapped on by his wife; found there might be someone else who wants to be with him EXCLUSIVELY, faithfully and honestly. Oh, Then the wife decides, 'oh my, i really didnt want this to end up like this' and back pedals.
you have me thinking, is this yet more silly game playing and manipulation by the Walk-Away-Wife. Give him a little sex, he likes sex, he thinks sex fixes everything. It will keep him in toe for a while. hmmmmm....
Gucci and some of the boys often prescribe this jealousy route as a means to bring WAW back to the M. I think that is dead wrong - my opinion - for reasons I stated in my earlier post. It may bring her back but without The Work, she ain't staying. Now...if LBS is GAL, and doing The Work, and looking Fine...and WAW sees this and say "hmmmmm....maybe I don't want to Leave this Spouse Behind" .... that's different.
The entire exercise of attracting one person by giving attention to another person breeds mistrust on both sides. You more or less proved that with your "you have me thinking" follow up. When folks go the Gucci route (sorry Gucci) trust gets trampled.
MHO.
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