I would call the police department(not 911) explain the situation from the last two weeks and ask if there is anything that could have been done. It won't hurt to find out.
I know D9 wants school lunch but maybe you could just do it maybe once or twice a week instead of everyday. As far as progress repsorts, ask the school to send both of you a copy and explain that due to the divorce, the kids go back and forth between homes and both parents want to be kept up to speed. or perhaps the school could e-mail that information. Just a couple of thoughts.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory