One of the things I did tell her last night was that I understood that she was going through a lot of stress right now - tried to validate what she was feeling. Not sure that really got through to her.
As for the pictures, I can understand taking down pictures from the walls, off the nightstands, etc., I mean afterall who wants to wake up and see a picture of someone who broke up the family, but are you talking about giving back all of the pictures/photos with your W in it? Just wondering.