Why do you think it is cold to validate her feelings?
Obviously all of my emotional crap makes me feel much better but when she reads it I want her to get that I understand so, I dunno, my saying I accept stuff just feels a little empty...does that make sense?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09