Give it to me straight!

[K4D]

M from Tennessee,

God doesn't lead you out of your covenant M and into a non covenant M. God doesn't lead someone to go cheat 55 times either. He doesn't lead people into sin.

Kerry,

I have quite a bit going on these days and I do not bother my W. There is enough on my plate to handle. But I don't stop loving her or praying for her and me to be reconciled. I don't stop praying for her to come out of adultery.

Whether or not I have gone effectively into C is a different issue. I have made many changes with how I act or react to anything my W says or does. Once in a while I will slightly test the waters only to find nothing has changed on her side. I take care of my responsibilities with my kids and with my life. Maybe it isn't the clear cut path that someone else would choose for me. But it is working for me.

I wish BBJ the best and at some point I pray that her H comes back to his senses and realizes what a great W he truly has.

Kevin