This is a divorce BUSTING site right? Not a file for divorce site right? Just wondering.
Kevin
That it is Kevin. We all come here seeking support and advice as to how to save our marriage. But in reality, most that come here have their marriage fail in the end. But the support and advice helps to lesson the sting and to come out the other side in much better shape.
But there comes a point, where after DBing your butt off, that it is time to move on with your life because there is no hope or reason why the marriage should be saved.
Bobbi Jo has practiced the concepts in Michelle's books quite well. She has gotten side tracked some with maybe too many R talks, but that is understandable. Her H is Mr Wishy Washy. He is also somewhat like you in that he refuses to seek any sort of counseling for himself.
Kevin, you have done a real piss poor job yourself at DBing. You are a stubborn mule when it comes to taking advice from others that would give your marriage a chance. Praying to god to fix your marriage is not going to fix your marriage. You need to seek out a counselor who will help you to grow a spine and learn about tough love and boundaries. And to help you to detach.
There was another guy on here that refused to listen to the advice of others. And he had some of the best advisors in his threads just as you have. And he had many that got fed up that he refused to follow the DBing concepts. It might help you to check his threads out to see where you are headed with your sole focus on what your wife is doing...
