Read this on another thread, think it's good for you:

Originally Posted By: The Wifey
It takes a long time to truly walk our own path and at first we fake it. Fake it until you make it. It doesn't mean you stop caring, that you give up, but it does mean you show that other person the respect to decide for themselves how they feel and what they are going to do.

It means that you take your heart out of their hands and don't spin with the least little sign, action or words. GAL helps you start to pull your identity away from the combined "us" that was you in the marriage.

We lose ourselves in marriage and in the daily flow of life. We settle into a comfortable routine. Paying bills, television, housework, the necessary activities take the place of living life to the fullest.

As painful as all of this is, this will be your chance to grow like you never have before in your life. One day at a time.

Last edited by pearlharbr; 09/24/09 06:22 PM.
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