I don't want to give a tongue lashing, or to rant and rave because that would be counterproductive in more than one way. I DO BELIEVE that I have to say something because I also believe his choice was irresponsible as both a parent and a spouse.
Guess that's why we're really all here anyway.
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127