RSF...ultimately this is your decision. If you feel Coach's words are good for you then go with it, if that was your gut, that it read well and will convey your feelings....go with it.
But remember this isn't over. My H filed and served me. Just last night he said "If this girl (taps my knee) had been here all along, we'd be fine" or something to that effect.
Don't worry about what you can't control.
It's not about Coach's words, its about sending email vs. being quiet. My inclination is to send a response and the content would be very similar to what he wrote for sure. But is there a better reason for doing nothing?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09