BBJ- I don't think I have ever posted to you, but I wanted to say I have been following your story for a very long time. Your last post really REALLY resonated with me and I felt compelled to post.
I admire how willing you are to share your thoughts/challenges. I know that 'hearing' how you will be fine and actually *knowing* you'll be fine are two different things.

All I really wanted to say is that you wrote something I could have written...seeing the reality for what it REALLY is..is frightening for me.

You're in my thoughts-
Trix'

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing