I did give him the papers last night. He looked at them for a minute, then said he would take them with him and read them. Of course he looked sad but he did take them. Just has to get the one paper notarized and returned to me.
(((BBJ))) ...that had to have been one of the most heart wrenching moments of your life. Be extra good to yourself again tonight. Did you find some comfort food last evening?
Some might suggest that Dan needs to hit rock bottom before he learns to look up. That catching him whenever he falls (that's our loving instinct, and perfectly fine when dealing with a healthy partner) may be holding him back from getting the help he needs.
When he figures out how lucky he was to have your love, and how much he lost... he WILL be seeking help. We just have no way of knowing when he'll finally fall to his knees.
I believe you gave him a lot to think about. I believe you just gave him the chance to save his life. He can't keep going on this way either. Sometimes people only grow when staying the same hurts worse than changing.
