SO ANGRY AT H~ advice needed

[brownidmom]

Coach, thanks for reading. But I must respectfully disagree.

H first started having health symptoms around Aug. 2008. During this time, I stayed up with him at night when he said his body felt like it was on fire. I took him to appts., to emergency room, stayed home from work with him, etc. This is the only period of time in the last 7 years that he told me he loved me.

What happened when they couldn't find anything wrong and his symptoms went away? H-"You weren't there for me when I was sick." Me- "I was there the only way I knew to be there." H-"See, even you know that you weren't there for me."

Since he has started having symptoms again and changed doctors, H won't tell me anything about how he feels. Read back through my sitch and look what happened when he had chest pains last week. He just doesn't want me to know anything that is going on in his life. Once, through all of his health issues, he said that he didn't think he was stressed enough for that to be the cause. Very well might be. Who holds a grudge like the one he is carrying around with him?!?!