Can you send that email, and detach? I mean completely?
I can leave her alone completely.
As I type this and try to think of my life without her and think about shaking OM's hand saying high to him, she or I being married to someone else, whatever it makes me hurt really bad. If that's detaching then I am not close to it.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09