BIM, The cure for anger is compassion. Why do men not like to ask for directions? Why did he not tell you about going to the hospital? He's scared, he doesn't know the answer to his health problems. It means we are getting older, weaker, can't provide as well, we are a burden, not as valuable, we aren't perfect, cause fear in our wife and kids, and it makes us feel lonely. Not excusing his behavior but trying to help you maybe see into his heart. He wasn't thinking about the deadbolt lock, he doesn't want to be a burden. It's not emotionally healthy but it's a common "snake on a brain" for men.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
