I have been talking to this one co-worker who also has a WAW. His W is also away from him and experiences the same up/down moods that my W has. I noticed that he has reached his limit and doesn't want to work on his M anymore. He said he's tired of always compromising. I noticed the resentment and hurt. I can really tell how much I have progressed in my quest for emotional balance. I don't talk to my W the way this fellow talks to his. I don't harbor feelings of anger and resentment.
I am glad for DB techniques. My M is not all there for sure, but DBing makes a big difference with my W and I. I have achieved a little peace of mind. That's a big step from 15 months ago... I am doing well thanks also to Carlos, Veronica, and MichelleLT. I know everyone has their cheering squad, but Carlos, Veronica, and Michelle are my lifesavers.
JR
Me:44 WAW:43 Children S13,S11,S7 Married 17 yrs W left JUN 08 W filed JAN 09 D proceedings dismissed AUG 09 W refiles 1 MAR 11