We know that, H'mama! Vent away! We surely do understand. My m-i-l put her first H through medical school, working as a secretary, and once he became a doctor, he left for someone else. He left her and her S with nothing. Can you imagine, though, she remarried him 2 wives later, had another 2 sons, and he cheated again. He ended up having 8 wives (shades of King Henry VIII), she and one other were the only ones to give him children. She had 3 sons with him, and the other wife had a daughter with disabilities (the W had her later in life). She was, however, the only W in the will when he passed away.
So, these things happen all the time. Doesn't make it any easier to deal with though.
The commonality among these types of men (IMHO) is their seeming charming nature. They can charm the birds out of the trees, but when they're done with them, will crush those very birds under their heals.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Vent away! We surely do understand. My m-i-l put her first H through medical school, working as a secretary, and once he became a doctor, he left for someone else. He left her and her S with nothing. Can you imagine, though, she remarried him 2 wives later, had another 2 sons, and he cheated again. He ended up having 8 wives (shades of King Henry VIII), she and one other were the only ones to give him children. She had 3 sons with him, and the other wife had a daughter with disabilities (the W had her later in life). She was, however, the only W in the will when he passed away.
