He has the boys later today. He'll probably ask if we can get together satuday to go over divorce stuff. I had originally been somewhat open to this, but realize now that I should not be. He has the boys part of the day sat and asked if my parents could watch the boys so we could talk. Should I just tell him I have plans? (if I do, he'll ask for another day) or should I tell him that I don't want to discuss the divorce with him, and my lawyer will be in touch?
I wrote a long "i am not your friend" email, but of course never sent it (I probably have 20 emails to him in my draft folder!)
I'll post an update tonight.
Me: 36 H: 33 S1: 4 S2: 2 Together: 13 years Married: 7 years Bomb: May 09 Found out about affair: June 09 Moved out: June 09 He Filed: July 09 Moved in with OW: July 09
