SO ANGRY AT H~ advice needed

[brownidmom]

Night before last, H told me that he would need me to pick up the boys tomorrow (now yesterday) from school because he had a Dr.'s appt. Sure, no problem.

So, last night around midnight, we had a storm and S8 came into our bedroom and said he was scared and that H had never come home. I tried to call H to make sure he was ok, no answer, left a messsage.

Meanwhile, didn't sleep. S6 also woke up and got into bed with us because of storm.

FF to this morning at 6- phone rings, H says that I will need to get the boys ready for school and take them.

Me- "where are you?"
H- "In the hospital."
Me- "Are you ok? Why did they keep you?"
H- "They ran some tests overnight."

I am beyond pissed. H knew when he went yesterday that they were going to keep him overnight! I guarantee it!!!

Now- how do I handle this without overstepping DB lines?"


My thoughts- H is selfish, thinks of himself only many times. H didn't want to share his business with me, as always. BUT I left dead bolt unlocked last night like I always do when he is going to be home late because it is a pain to get into. Also, if I had heard someone trying to get into the house, I would have assumed it was H and ignored it. If I had known H wasn't coming home, I would have locked the dead bolt and kept my ears open for any noises.

I am even more incensed because I know that no matter what I say, H probably won't give 2 flying figs about it.

Please tell me the most direct and mature way to handle this.

BIM