So I'm terrified for what I am about to do, but I know it needs to be done. I need to go as dark as possible (not completely because of the boys). I need him to realize that I am not his friend. I feel like I am taking such a risk here.
Much of DB is counter-intuitive. You are not taking a risk. If I had a dollar for every person that managed to pull back, go dark/dim, detach and then garnered renewed attention from their WA I would be rolling in the money.
Trust us. Step out on faith. You CAN do this.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
