Thanks D. good advice regarding the guessing. H left for work this morning and he has therapy today on his own. He said as he left, pointing to his appointment card, " I really hate this!" I didn't say anything, just nodded-I don't want to have H think I'm pushing him to continue therapy.
I think he's at the point in therapy when its hard and he's really dealing with the hard stuff, which makes one want to avoid going altogether...I've been there done that...hope he sticks it out..
This is a hard place to be right now, with H dealing with his demons and being Jeckyll and Hyde-like..its almost a relief when he's not around sometimes. Very moody...
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.