RSF--say nothing. Do nothing. Ignore it. If she brings it up you simply say, I'm still thinking about things and to be honest, I'm just not there yet. Still have lots of things jumbled up in my head and I do need some time to work it all out. Thanks for understanding.
Push it back and put it off.
Stronger, I don't want her to keep feeling like what she says doesn't matter or doesn't get heard. I guess I've lost her but I still want her to know that I care and that I love her and that I think she's a good person.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09