Redsox, I believe she means whatever you are going to be in the future (friends, co-parents, something.) She is telling you she wants to proceed with the D or Separation papers.
I'm so sorry.
No need to rush to respond. If you give any response right now it will be emotionally driven. If she pushes then you are "thinking" right now.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
