For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[WalkingMan]

Man he sounds insensitive! I'd be so angry I couldn't see straight!

I still think you should set some boundries. DO NOT tolerate his inconsiderate behavior. He won't like you taking power back, but he's got to see that he can't just walk all over you and happily walk away and eat his cake. He coome to your house, he follows your rules, period. Don't let him see you get mad, just be matter of fact about it. He should see you moving on and getting a life.