Robx, I feel great. Thank you. You (and everyone else on this board) have been a great help.
And I know this is a process. I gave my W an unprompted phone call this morning to ask if she decided to go for the bike ride. She had not, but I told her to have a good day anyway. She thanked me. And left with "Have a good day sweetheart". It has been a while since I heard something like that.
