Okay - so last night my W had a mini-melt down. Uncontrollable sobbing, but not really getting into the details of what was wrong other than a horrible day at work.
This morning she has become more distant than the last few days, not that she was overly engaged before, but there is a definite difference in her interation with me. I'm chalking it up to the stress and realization of her upcoming move. I've simply been trying to be her friend lately and keep a positive and pleasant attitude around her. I think this will work best even after she moves out in terms especially of co-parenting our children.