Scared and need advice

[Calliope]

Hi LFA.. Just wanted to say that like many on here, your H sounds just like mine! I was shocked at how quickly he wanted to get he divorce rolling. He, too, said he was miserable for years and is just 'done' with the marriage (no counseling, no trying, nothing) It became quite clear to me why he left so quickly, he had an OW waiting for him. I may have skipped osme of your posts, do you know if there is an OW?

Feel free to review my sitch, I feel like I'm a few months ahead of you on this roller coaster