I have been wondering how things would be after she goes. From the people that I have talked to, including a female a cousin of mine who did the same thing, it's likely that she will feel freed and excited for a short while then it may sink in. Maybe not.
You're right though. If I have been able to get through this, I should be able to get through anything.
I'll have to catch up on your sitch. I'm interested to see what can happen a little while in.
FYI...my cousin was gone for 4 months before she went back home.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.