Originally Posted By: saffie
I am a lot more jaded and often look at 'what's in it' for the other person when someone is 'nice' to me these days.


Ohh so true. it bites in engaging relationships, but at least I can say for myself that I was far too trusting of people before and usually got burned, so going through the infidelity and trust issues, I have a postivie emergence of being more questionable and cautious of other's intent these days.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11