Shut up Doc! No more R Talk for a while. Do your own thing while being plesant and let W work on things. If you constantly pursue( by bringing R up) she is going to run. Doing what you are doing now seems to be working if she is leaning into you.
Would you please let go of OM!!!!!!!! you are still obbsessing I feel.It is over so try to move on from that.
I just wish my H would stop bringing up R(ow) talk sometimes but, I also feel that when this stuff happens is when he tends to work a little on himself otherwise he just tries to bury it.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez