Regarding the possiblity of cheating, Should i confront her and say something along the lines of -
"I need to know the truth, is there another guy in your life? Because if you are not telling me and I find out later on, then it will really affect our relationship going forward as far as the kids and everything else goes"
here you answered your own question:
Originally Posted By: KiwiMan
Thanks undrdg,
Yeah, I have already confronted her about the possiblity of another man, before I got onto this site. And everytime she has denied it. (I said that if she wasn't being honest with me and I found out anything different in the future it would effect the outcome of our relationship as far as parents to the children etc went) But that was all said 2 weeks ago now.
she'll never tell you the truth unless she really wants to stick it to you. and she might.