Originally Posted By: Mongoose27
I see a lot of positive stuff on here. I just want to know what people did to get to that point. I feel like I am play acting to be positive and project that image to people who are around me. I especially have to do it in front of my little girl. What do I do be honest and express my feelings? OR act like everything is ok so I look good and portray a positive experience all the time. Not depressed or sad but definitely lonely and hurt. I hate the idea of being single. It wasn't that great the first time


"Fake it till you make it". It is a common mantra among recovering addicts, but it works here too. If you keep thinking of yourself positively, eventually your feelings will follow.

Last edited by tristan; 09/24/09 11:02 AM.

Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1