It's too hard sometimes

[KiwiMan]

I am in a similar position, I can't understand my W decision to cut all ties and go her own way, without trying anything apart from her own feelings. I am sitting at home with our kids while she is out on a bender. Sorry, I am quite emotional at this time... but it still breaks my heart that she can just move on like this when its more at stake than just my feelings in this whole thing. I hope that we all get some sort of result that means we can either move on or get things back together. It seems the theme of alot of these stories is a major breakdown in communication and pent up feelings or anger that pushes the instant gratification.... I wish you all the best, and take care of yourself. Thats the hardest part is not blaming yourself... it takes 2 to tango...