Hi Nell, Buttercup and Oz,
It was good to hear from you all and to gain your perspectives. I think patience and no expectations are my key words at present. I certainly have no expectation that he will make contact. It's easy to say this stuff but more difficult to action. I suspect that I won't hear from him now. I had thought it was up to him to initiate contact but perhaps I am being too rigid in my thinking and I could set something in action. I can't come across as being pushy either. I haven't sent him the kids school photos so perhaps that's a simple start.

Today I went out for shoes to wear to the wedding. I bought some strappy sandals and they do look good with my coral dress that I bought at Flower. Do you know that shop Nell? they have 11 stores in WA apparently. I was after some new jewellery but couldn't quite find what I was after so will head to the shops for a quick browse tomorrow morning. I paraded it all for D tonight and she thinks some jewellery I already have will be fine but I really want a bit more bling! The last wedding I went to I said I will never go alone again. Ha ha