UPSIDE DOWN - still struggling, trying to detach

[Lost Rabbit]

The one person on here I have the most admiration for is Dia she has adapted her DB'ing to suit the situation, and I do think we have to do that too! So if a bit of polite friendly contact works and draws your H in then do it! As Oz said he wanted sympathy and looked at least to get it from the right place! DB'ing is being strategic and one size doesnt fit all so a bit of tweaking is appropriate and "more of the same" does fit the bill if it works do it! If you will excuse the expression, when we first meet our other halves in the mens case they are "thinking with their credentials" so perhaps bringing them back to that moment even if for a short while gets them engage again so be it.