Basically he said he just decided that he couldn't handle even one more R talk, the strain of the effort of it all was just too much.
WTF!?!?! Unacceptable. This is how he moves mountains to save his family and the smile on his children's faces? Not. B-effing-S. Seriously. I know you are too close to see it, BBJ, but please. Just. Stop.
Your thread says "Give it to me straight." This is a marriage saving site and I've found myself holding back posting the glaringly obvious steps to do this because each time you get your hopes up you shoot yourself in the foot. Well, that and you are too good for this lazy man-child. Ironically, everyone is telling you exactly what to do if you want a chance in Hell to save your marriage!
Serve him the papers. Detach and move forward. Take back the control and stop giving the choice to HIM! Your choice, your game, your rules...
You tried to piece it on your own. You tried retrouvaille (miss ya Sara), you tried everything but insisting Dan get the help he needs to function as a provider and father, let alone husband. He doesn't like women and has a daughter! He will be floundering soon and reaching for that life raft, darn it make him swim!
