Oh yeah! Mind you, H probably only replied quickly so that he could get some sympathy for his man-flu - so says the cynic in me!!
I've hit him with two big emails tonight - complete with attachments. Feeling that it was a lot when he's feeling unwell, I added some chat on to the end of both emails, "acting as if" ... some banter between friends, so as to lift the 'heavy' message from the financial aspect.
The other email was the buildings tribunal hearing date - that's going to be a half day hearing with 'us' against 'them'. I explained that we need to show a united front, whatever happens. We should arrive and leave together.
It will be interesting to see what happens next from H and it means that I can keep my 'financial' chats up my sleeve for another time.
Kind of thinking that 'more of the same' involves contact - even though I feel that it should be limited. NC gets me nowhere and only allows H to feel that I have gone ... which he delights in.
This really IS a counter-intuitive process ... it all feels wrong and is most confusing. Must mean that I am finally getting it right then??!!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
