I wouldnt take it as a sign of anything. Take it for exactly what it was, a positive interaction with her. Two in one day, my friend, its been a good day!
Now you need to not undo whats happened here. Wait for her to talk to you, and play it cool for a day or so.
Cling to hope: Maybe this is a chance for you to do some personal growth and practice patience! I firmly beleive that my whole situation was a big chance for me to grow. Honestly, when my H did visit, one of the major things that I noticed was just how little he had changed! It was actually a big turn off.
Yes. I know I need to grow. Certain changes have to happen and I know they must be consistent. It doesn't change the ache and the fear of losing her before she can accept that things can be different.
I already planned on backing way off, but it's helpful to be reminded and to know that people care (a necessary lesson all on its own).
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)
