I wonder if people who got divorced because of their spouses infidelity, ever learn to trust their next spouse with the same "innocence" they had for their first spouse.
Speaking from personal experience, I would say that my whole outlook on life and trust has changed since I learnt of my H's infidelity. I no longer have the innocent, happy go lucky approach to others that I had. I am a lot more jaded and often look at 'what's in it' for the other person when someone is 'nice' to me these days. I don't like feeling like that......but it's how I am now. I no longer feel able to take things at face value.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
