I received a copy of H response from attorney in the mail today. He filed in late December, I responded in early January. It has been eight months. My attorney also attached a note that he filed the response with the court. She said what he filed was something against court procedure and it will be interesting to see what they do with it.
Oh brother... The craziness goes on. He continues to be very cold hearted.
He is refusing to pay spousal support( we have been married twelve years) because he feels I had plenty of time to further my education to make a better living. He estimated my income, and it was higher than I actually make. He makes about four times more than I do. I in fact, had to take a cut in pay when we relocated for his job. A job I heard about and thought he should apply.
He is refusing to pay my attorney fees, because he stated we could have worked this out by going to marriage counseling. That I refused. We did go once, but that's all. And it was only to make him look good, like he tried. I have proof he was already with skank when we went. Whenever I wanted to talk about the R, he would walk out the door. he was the one who didn't want to try.
He did say I can keep my dogs. They were something I had asked for in my response. He was so cold, and still is, that I thought he would claim them to be mean.
He is being a real jerk! This was not like him at all.
He came home right after work today. He is being nice. He is polite. He asks if he can bring me anything when he is up. It's just so weird! What a schmoozer! I never know what mood he is going to be in. It would be so mean if he was doing this to get a reaction out of me since that letter didn't do it!
I am not going to back down! After what he has put me through no way! All I have to do is put that picture in my head of coming face to face with them on the motorcycle that day. Oh, I could have made some real trouble for him in this town! And at his work! I wonder if he's thought of that. We are still in the same house, so this won't be pretty!
It is getting harder and harder to stand for this marriage.
I will continue along my same path, by putting my TRUST in the LORD. He is in control of this situation, and HE has me in the palm of HIS hands.
