Kevin - not to beat a dead horse here.....

Yes, indeed, God does hate D. However, God does permit D in cases of adultery and the departure of an unbelieving spouse. BBJ's H has adultery covered in spades.

I assumed you have read all of BBJ's posts and have seen the twisted way Dan's mind works, the manipulation he uses, the carrot dangling he does only to pull it back right as BBJ reaches for it.

I fully believe that all M's deserve a chance. There is such a thing as self-respect though. How long does someone have to suffer at the hands of another? God does not want us to suffer because of someone else's poor treatment and bad decisions.

Ok, enough said, BBJ - sweetie - do what is in your heart. You have fought a good and noble fight. 3 years is a LONG fight. Who knows what may occur in 3 more years, but are you willing to sit back and put your very young life into permanent limbo on the off chance that Dan gets help for himself? It doesn't seem so to me.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!