Drop the D. What purpose does it serve? Are you in this to win your H's soul back or not? Are you trying to please God or not. Your signature basically says that God is important to you. Why then pursue something that God says he hates, namely divorce? Why not trust in Him for the outcome of your marriage and be patient and wait for His perfect timing? The world will tell you to D your covenant H and find someone else. That isn't what God tells you to do.
I only say this because you mentioned God in your signature. Don't pay attention to the world, pay attention to what the bible says and what you know to be true. Keep praying for your H's soul to be saved and for your M to be saved. Trust in God, not in people.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...