I see a lot of positive stuff on here. I just want to know what people did to get to that point. I feel like I am play acting to be positive and project that image to people who are around me. I especially have to do it in front of my little girl. What do I do be honest and express my feelings? OR act like everything is ok so I look good and portray a positive experience all the time. Not depressed or sad but definitely lonely and hurt. I hate the idea of being single. It wasn't that great the first time