Yeah, I have already confronted her about the possiblity of another man, before I got onto this site. And everytime she has denied it. (I said that if she wasn't being honest with me and I found out anything different in the future it would effect the outcome of our relationship as far as parents to the children etc went) But that was all said 2 weeks ago now.
If I did find out that something was happening with another guy, at least in my mind it would hurt like hell, but also enable me to move on easier.
I just hope that she really meant what she said in feeling lost etc etc, and that me using the proper techniques can assure her that I can change... watch this space I guess.
M - 30 WAW - 29 D - 8 S - 5 BOMB - 09/12/09
My Situation - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1842559#Post1842559