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I think I am going to be done. H only contacts me on days he wants to come over because he wants to see S, but he never calls in between and he never helps out financially at all the whole time he has been gone. I am just so sick of his irresponsible behavior. He said he wanted to work on things with us, but how can we work if he never talks to me, and talks to OW every night. UGH!d[quote][/quote]

I'm interested in your situation because we are on the same timeline. I moved out -- I was asked to -- on Mother's Day, so it's been five months.

Here's where it's different. The first couple of weeks I only took $200 and left the rest of my check for my W to use. The next check I took $400 and left the rest. Then the guy I was staying with told me he was getting serious with his girlfriend and I couldn't stay there forever. Basically, he wanted me to step up and force the situation on the money.

So we worked out a non-binding child support plan. I can't believe your H hasn't given you anything. I know this is a DB site and we all want things to work out, but have you seen a lawyer yet. Right now he's having it all his way. I don't see how you can hold out financially.